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    车祸发生的太早，观众和一家人的情感尚未完全建立，再加上毫发无损的Chloë Grace Moretz好好的站在那里，所以心痛的代入感不强烈。
    Mia的抢救，用再多术语，说得再严重都没用，因为她就在那里，毫无痛苦。只是焦急得看着这一切的发生。
    其实这是一个幸运的女孩，有最好的亲情，最好的友情，以及最好的爱情，却遭遇到灭门的灾难，原本是最好的复杂情绪引发情感共鸣的契机，可惜没有达成。
    传统难免保守，叛逆多少偏激。Mia父母，一个是摇滚少年，一个是叛逆少女。居然分分钟变成居家楷模。从不认为自己的牺牲是牺牲，是因为是用它换取了更想要的东西。爸爸卖掉爵士鼓，买了大提琴，是因为有些人的快乐，比他自己的快乐更能让他快乐；有些人的幸福，比他自己的幸福更能让他幸福。
    爱情永远是青少年电影的主角，但本片中亲情绝对占了上风，即便Adam相当完美。爱情永远不会像亲情一样无偿付出，单向付出是爱情的杀手。两人都有梦想，也都知道对方的梦想。梦想是让他们强大的原因，也是他们会相互吸引的原因，但最后成为了他们必须分开的原因。
    Mia最后选择回归人世，而不是撒手人寰，是电影的需要。影片在她睁眼一刻戛然而止。是因为无法想象之后能如何继续？失去全部家人的Mia，会不会继续求学？面对成为孤儿又外出求学的Mia，Adam会不会放弃乐队相随？十年后一个蜚声国际的爱乐乐团首席大提琴手，和一个人到中年除了弹吉他什么都不会的家庭妇男又会发生什么故事。

We, grown-ups, seems to be stubbornly convinced that young adult stories are stupid, and only teenagers themselves will be silly enough to fall in love with this kind of "so-called" romantic novels.
For that we already knew the transitory characteristic of love. We understand it, crystal clear, right from the beginning of the film that their love story might not even live through the winter, they are not going to survive the long distance after high school, not to mention that the post-traumatic stress our heroine must deal with as long as she wake up after the car accident(, though this is the story in its sequel 'Where She Went'). We know that, time itself might bring an end to the relationship between this young man and this young woman.

But, is it not the most beautiful part of every teenager love story, or of puberty? What make those young children, those teenager boys and girls so attracting is that they take their pure love, their approaching departure, their breakup as this important that their hearts are tortured by whips for thousands of times. The pain is all that matters, that hurts, that suffocates, and they think they will never get through this. They struggle, they quarrel, they cry, they reconcile with each other, as love and pain remains the only theme of their adolescence.

They do not know now, but they will understand it one day, that all these love and pain, joy and suffering will become a memory with bitter sweets or even a memory with no colour, a memory that brings back no sensation. However, this never counteract the real experience they are right now undergoing. All these hurts, all these emotions, all these tears are once so real, that almost break their hearts or already broke them. They live in drama, not because they are affected, but their lives are filled with dramatic conflicts.

Not until the puberty ends, along with the death of drama, will these whole true life-play come to a termination.
Then, teenage love, which is so void but sincere, dies alongside with it.

      其实在我看来，一部影片最重要的并不是说她有多么好的特效来夺人眼球，而是它整个故事的完整性，好让你在看的时候不愿快进，在看完的时候又在脑中不断地回想，嘿，我想再往前倒退。
      由此这部影片便开始显得珍贵了，当你只想回看开头的那份报纸，就会跟亚当最后放弃演出一心回到米娅身边守护，又在阳台上懊悔不已的画面联系在一起；当你听完爷爷的那番话，你就想回看到当时爸爸卖掉自己心爱的鼓买回女儿大提琴时那脸上喜悦的笑……
      这是一部音乐贯穿始终的剧，也许很多人说故事老套，但我觉得很多学音乐的人都能有共鸣吧。为了米娅对音乐的热忱，所有家人的牺牲，家人的鼓励，到后来与男友亚当之间出现分歧，都让人不由回想，还记得温柔的父母在你学琴的那段岁月对你的爱之深、责之切么？
      不知为何，看完《星运里的错》和这部两部文艺片的预告片之后，还是首选了这部，可能也比较喜欢这部的演员吧。
      总之，看了一遍还想在看，心中总有一个地方漏跳了半拍。
     

这个故事也许看起来一切都还OK，但是深入进去，发现这一切都像崩塌了一样。如果这一切发生在我身上，我该怎么办，我是留下还是结束这一切呢。
我预测不了这个结果，只知道，胆怯如我，一定会选择逃避。
喜欢女孩为了梦想而活，也感激男孩勇敢的表白。
如果留下，要更感激生命。每一天都是美好的一天，每一天都有太阳升起。我们应该快乐。

        你评价一部电影的好坏是什么？
        我的很简单，笑点能让我发自内心的笑，哭点能让我潸然泪下，同时不摁快进键，即使知道结局。

        如果知道女主角是贝家大公子的绯闻女友，估计看片的时候会有更多的挑剔，就像你习惯给熟悉的人更多的挑剔，给陌生人更多的宽容。当然，喜欢这部电影并不是因为对陌生主角的宽容，而是它真的让我情不自禁的流泪。

        串联全片的是女主的爱情故事，才气男友最后也不离不弃，但最能拨动泪腺的是为数不多展现亲情的镜头。全神贯注听小女儿演奏大提琴的爸爸，放弃了自己的摇滚；宽慰失恋女儿的潇洒妈妈；还有在病床前慈祥而又坚毅的爷爷，“I want you to live.I want that more than anything in this world.I want you to fight like hell to stay with us.But with everybody else gone,I know it might be not what you want,It might be too hard for you to keep fighting,So if you wanna go,i want you to know it's ok. It's okay.I understand. ”

        在你成长的过程中一定想象过要是父母兄弟都离你而去的画面，你觉得是解脱的轻松吗？反正我是不寒而栗，不敢进一步想象。有父母在，就有永远是作为儿女的任性，有兄弟姐妹在，就知道总会有人与你嬉笑打闹共担风雨，所以当这一切都不在的时候，生比死反而需要更大的勇气。

        我相信女主角最后还是醒过来了，因为还有那么多人为她守候，慈祥坚毅的爷爷，不离不弃的男友，两肋插刀的朋友。
 
          她的前面还有窗，她的前面还有光。